A few years ago, I found myself in a somewhat familiar situation, staring at a to-do list that looked like it had been copied from a phonebook. I had every intention of organizing my life — both work and personal — and had spent a whole Sunday drafting “the plan” to finally get everything under control. I meticulously identified what was urgent, important, and downright trivial. Three hours later, I realized that I had spent more time organizing my list than actually doing any of the tasks on it. In a classic moment of “life happening,” I found myself knee-deep in distractions, staring at the nice list I’d made but no closer to achieving any meaningful progress.

As I sat there, feeling my optimism slowly leak away, I remembered something I had read in The Lean Startup by Eric Ries, a book popular in business circles. Ries talks about the importance of focusing on the “critical path” — the direct steps that will take you from A to B — rather than getting bogged down by everything that seems important in the moment. This is a strategy often embraced by successful startups, but it is just as applicable in everyday life. We all know that if we don’t focus on the tasks that truly move us forward, we’ll end up overwhelmed and ineffective. Yet, somehow, we easily fall into the trap of avoiding the critical tasks in favor of those that feel more comfortable and/or urgent in the short term.

That brings us to the first point: The idea of the “critical path” isn’t just a buzzword in business but rather a life raft in the sea of distractions we all face. For work, the critical path often involves tackling the big, important projects that move the needle and not slogging through in email chains or updating your LinkedIn profile for the fourth time this month. In relationships, it means focusing on the core issues that matter and not getting sidetracked by the trivial annoyances that seem like they need attention but really don’t. And in personal life, it’s about carving out time for what’s significant and not merely filling the day with the endless churn of tasks that give the illusion of productivity.

I won’t claim that the critical path is an easy lesson to learn. Some days, you’ll feel like the critical path is buried under a pile of small, shiny distractions all clamoring for attention. But here’s the thing: Being aware of the critical path — and consistently choosing it — is a skill, one that grows with practice and an occasional dose of humility. In the coming essays, I’ll explore how staying on the critical path can transform not only your professional achievements but also your relationships and personal well-being.

Following the critical path is not about being perfect or superhuman — far from it. Instead, it’s about recognizing where your energy is best spent and realizing that sometimes doing less is the key to doing more.

Contributor’s Note: Mark Wilson, Chief Analytics Officer and Senior Business Advisor. This is the first in a series of nine blogs on the importance of the critical path. Comments, suggestions, reactions, examples, and questions are welcome. Reach me at mark.wilson@horizonperformance.com